Okay, just finished making the videos of our weekend vending Tibestfest IV in Goshen, CT, 2008.

Scenes from the event like the sand mandala making, making dough flowers, me giving some aura & chakra readings, people, an outside walk, the violent thunderstorm that ended the festival and some impromptu Tibetan music after the fest ended. Was great to watch as we all waited for the latest shower to pass and could continue packing up the car to go home.

Note that because we were vending these were brief forays. Typically, every time E left I got swamped by people. LOL

Cheers and enjoy,

Melissa

PART ONE

PART TWO

AFTER THE FESTIVAL - SOME MUSIC!

Uh-huh, yeah right. Well, 'vacation' or not it's over which means (drumrollll) MORE WORK!

ARGH!

Ah well, better to have then have not I suppose. Still, going to that gem and mineral show was great and no, still haven't gotten to pictures of my stuff, but eventually.

Last day of vacation was staying up till 4 am to take some videos of E playing for our http://www.templesounds.net site. Got some great stuff, here's just one of them:

Today it has been more photo shoots of tumbled stones and crystals for the website. Soon as camera battery recharges I have to dash and download to my laptop; select the good ones, resize, upload to website then do the HTML thumbnail codes for, um, think have 30 maybe for today. Ha, today and tonight and possible tomorrow on day off as well since am already blind. Dreary muggy-clammy overcast day where you just can't seem to get it in gear no matter what. Don't mind the work though because at least we're seeing results. Helps when you do as opposed to finishing and feeling like all your effort ended up in some black hole someplace, right?

Okay, sorry, know this is all boring, but at least I am trying to post. Something that won't leave me drained further at that, since actually thinking and going on a raging tangent on oh, say 'politics' just won't be doing me any good. Least right now. Whole world is just fucked royal due to having a majority population of moronic herd beast cattle, and let's leave it at that.

This video here is a brief highlight of our day participating in the Meiklem Kiln Works 4th Annual Holistic Fair...

And to round thing up, some morning glories blooming here in the living room amongst my baby mimosa tree. Was a great thing to wake up to and find as I lifted the shades.

Cheers all,

Melissa

Oh I am just so psyched, today being one of the Good Ones. Yup, not only did my loooong awaited little cigar darlings arrive, yet the CD containing one of my fav songs in fav version arrived as well (best $3.98 including ship & handling I ever spent) ALONG with just this moment finding the bastard for my free music player here at the blog. Ha, go figure, right?

Still, "Don't Fear The Reaper" acoustic version by GUS is here for all to share. Least as long as it's available.   

Now I am off to kick back, smoke, drink and groove to tunes while the sun sets, the clouds glorious, a large thunderstorm just ending in time to view the whole, natural show.

Cheers gang,

Melissa

Uh-huh. Well, plan to enjoy it all the same. Try for some 'me time' when I can get it. Just put a post on my Pipester Blog, so came winging here next.

Had a great time Friday at the Gem & Mineral show. Both E and I got ourselves some goodies. (Picts to come later when I can see straight, ha.) A new wompin' piece of Sphalerite, a companion and helper to bring with me when I do chakra readings at shows, ets. A little spiked-ball critter, full sphere of crystals with touch of hemetite maybe since it's a rusty orange/red inside. Some more funky quarts crystals with light orange garnets growing over and inside and a really cool hunk of Carnelian, a shiva linham-type tumbled thing almost as long as my hand. Wonderful energies, very healing and just what was needed.

Bunch of stuff for the shop, tumbled stones by the pounds and can't wait to open the bags of sunstones, aquamarines and blue kyanites. Some green goldstone as well. Love green and my Aquarius nature just drools over things sparklie, hehe

Another piece, a pendent that E found and sorta pushed my into. A carved dragon's head made of fossilized ivory. Mammoth tusk with lots of sharp teeth. Very cool though, can't wait to wear. Other things for the shop, goddesses and dragons, wolves and mermaids. Going to be fun getting them on the web or at least smile when we re-open the shop and actually have new things to shop folks once again.

Will see how today goes though. yesterday was a BAD ONE. Art & Holistic fair was a total bust beyond some contacts made, still, it's the energies around here need to be dealt with. Now, I am not one to bitch about my significant others as so many are prone to do online here. Not fair really, because you only ever really hear one side of the story in those things, lack the true nature of the events and personalities involved. Lets just say I DO understand, know he's as burnt out as I am and his nature, only neither of us needed that full screaming and literally spitting rage tantrum he through at me yesterday morning as we drove to a day of work. As usual, I'll accept his apology, and as usual, knowing the principles, will just sigh knowing it will not keep the same thing happening again in the future. Ah well.

Okay, it's 9:30am and I am wiped out totally, just sitting here slumped over with eyes barely cracked open. More soon.

Cheers,

Melissa

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Melissa

Hey folks,

Well I am BACK ONLINE!!! with new pc Still no time to catch up yet though, just did a 2 day ventding festival over the weekend Tib*t F*st (so no search engines find me due to that. Long story about what hapened last year yikes) and now here it is Tuesday and I'm still wiped out, just had to cancel a dinner party with friends from the gallery I've not seen in months. Migrain and nausia (spelling) and dizzy to boot.

Anyway, will catch up soon, only, hum, anyone know what happened to my tagboard messages? Grr, hope this thing hasn't been hacked again... Still pissed off royal about that bugger who banned a bunch of my fav buddies IP addresses that time...

Okay GTG lay down again, Be Back soon as i can,

Melissa

...continues. Nixing the Toshiba idea, just got back from some stores and looked them over. Keyboard, yuck. Last row spaced too far away, and since they are 'lifted' like tiny mushrooms all it would take is one little thing to get snagged beneath and rip them right off. Three store demo models were actually minus keys, all Toshibas. 'Nough said. Reason further, however, is fact that YES I CAN get a PC with Windows XP! Whoo-hoo! XP Business Professional is what can be installed at places like Dell. Costs $100.00 extra, (you get the Vista disc free with the system for when you want to 'upgrade',) but it will be worth it. Especially considering Vista is going to be replaced next year with OS Windows 7.

Beyond that though, my darling Emile said the magic words to me today, which were: "Get what you want." Followed by: "We can afford it."

*Swoons*

Now, that last may not be exactly true, however, a commission started three years ago for a custom built ULF (Ultra Large Format) camera was just completed, and the percentage Emile made for being the go between of customer and builder (high blood pressure, threats, hours of phone calls, emails after emails after emails, inspections, returns, more threats and shouting since the builder who can make a best of the best cameras is a pathological liar, lazy and sloppy because he is lazy. Bugger actually forgot to put the hardware on a $4,000 camera once, thus upon receiving it fell apart, there being nothing actually holding the damn thing together, just wood slotted into wood. Also phones you out of the blue, saying your camera has been shipped, should be there in two days, gives you a UPS tracking number...only to find out he made it up. Tracking number is bogus, and when you phone him back after waiting around all day long for your delivery he admits he has not actually started making the camera yet. Be eight months more at least, crap like that,) will cover a good bit of a nice new computer system for me.

Further, doing lots of research and reviews, Emile came to me saying--holds breath-- "Have you heard about Alienware?"

*Shrieks!*

BTW Alienware also comes with OS Windows XP Biz Professional too if you want.

Drools.

So now I am playing around online building a custom system. (Hehe!) An Area-51 m15x 15.4" LCD. Bells and whistles, Lightscribe DVD RW, glowing, lit keyboard in my choice of color, (which will be an awesome help when I type late at night in low light conditions,) RAM and speed up the ass and three years of in home, next business day tech service around $2,500. I mention this to Emile and he says, "Get what you want," once more. "Get everything you need because you will be using it." Recalls as well that 30% is write off able at end of the year...

Alright, may not go that way, (more like probably because it really is too expensive.) might end up with a Dell Latitude D830 or Precision M4300 (BTW Dell makes Alienware as well,) because even if I am going to venture deeper into the 3D graphic art creations for book covers and eBook art there really is only so much I need, and main purpose of my computer is writing and website design work. Video creations for the websites, as well as our upcoming DVD creations on Tibetan bowls, etc. Still, considering this is a laptop that is going to be running the Aura Chakra video station at shows, the Alienware Smart Bay is a bonus. It is where you have a slot to so can pull out and exchange your DVD gizmo with a second battery or extra hard drive on instant whenever you feel like it. More then once we've been to shows where they lost power, and that second battery could be a survival issue at that point. Sure, may not be able to prints then, but with all that memory it is a piece of cake to save and then print up and mail to people the next day from home.

Guess everything is going to depend on the answers we get from the Aura station software manufacturers at this point. Cutting edge in biofeedback technology, but backwards when it comes to WORD and program compatibilities. Like it can not be used with anything beyond WORD 2003 last we heard. (Fingers crossed it has changed.) Considering that is the only program that displays the photos and reports it is an issue. Also, Alienware seems to be a 64 bit system, not a 32 bit. Very sensitive for a $10,000 program, even with the same operating system and proper WORD programs something about Sony computers screws it up.

Needless to say I am keeping my fingers crossed here. Have decided on the Ripley cover and I want my glowing alien face! LOL!

Well anyways, we shall see. Going to wing by HP now since I still have an affection for Conpaqs, and after our hands-on store venture they still seem the nicest when it comes to keyboard design and stability. Don't think you can get them with XP though...

Okay, off to window shop some more. if nothing else, it's fun as hell.

Cheers,

Melissa

Buy a song, I make a few pennies...or at least a couple thin shavings. LOL

Hi gang, hugs all around.

Well the literary agent answered my inquiry email yesterday morning. Has been having a crazy bust few weeks along with some travel, yet the response was:

So off a copy went yesterday. Fingers crossed, folks!

Next, with luck I shall be getting a new laptop this weekend. Love, love, love my one now, but it is only a matter of time till it wheezes its last. Am looking at a kick-ass Toshiba, but we shall see. (One looking at Toshiba Satellite X205-SLI5 17" Widescreen Laptop. Intel Core 2 Duo T8300, 320GB hard drive, 3GB of DDR2 memory, hard drive speed 7200RPM...ooo-la-la!) is actually meant for gaming, but beyond the Aura/Chakra programs I have some 3D art proggies (Like Z-Brush) that need the space. Book and CD cover art and graphics, the tarot deck I am designing, stuff like that. Never had a Tosh before, always went with Compaq, but they do not make them like the used too. My main concern is, no guesses, VISTA. Of course I could go to HP direct and get a “downgrade” option of XP...still thinking of it. Would go MAC, only the Aura Chakra programs do not work with a MAC. Called the company and they said yes, their programs do work with Vista, so we shall see. Still window shopping at this point. Price is a major “ouchie” but since it’s for business 30% is write-off able so we shall see. Besides, no problem with dreaming, right?

Well, that’s the good stuff, now on to the suckie.

Family. Family = headache for Melissa.

Really thought I had a handle on things, had the “I know the principles involved, know who they are and what they are like, and I do not need to be effected detrimentally by these people,” thing down.

Like I did not give me mother a call this Mother’s Day. Reason for that was what happened last year. Mom lives across the country from me, lives close to my sister and her kids. My sister and I do not get along, are simply just too different in how we choose to be and live in this world. Details are not required.

Anyway, I had called mom, we were having a great conversation, then suddenly something changed. Mom started reacting like she was chatting with an annoying neighbor. No responses now except neutral ‘uh-huh’s’, ‘yeahs’ and the like. The she says, “Well, my daughter just got here so I have to go now.” Meaning she did not want my younger sister to know who she was talking to on the phone. No ending “I love and miss you,”, just an absently spoken “Bye.” Now, I understood she did not want her day ruined by having my sister turning into a bitch by finding out who was on the phone, but come on...

Now, mom is going through a nasty divorce, mentioned briefly in previous posts. To update, she has lost everything. Guy who wanted the divorce emptied their bank accounts before he told her and took off. Returned while she was at work and hauled away everything of value, from lawn tractor on down. Mom tried to have a yard sale, but not a single person showed. After putting everything away she hiked up to the highway and discovered every single sign she had put up had been pulled up and laid face down. Her husband’s boss and good buddy lives there. Enough said. Unable to make the mortgage payment, her husband now has the house because he could.

Now comes an email from my sister who has not spoken to me for a long time. They are very doing well, but have decided to sell their sign-making business and go into retail property. (Renters.)

Following is from the email:“Wayne and I are taking her (mom) to look at a trailer in a mobile home retirement (over 55) park today. We are seriously considering purchasing this trailer for her as long as she can make lot payments and utilities. I don't want to make her pay for it because she will need all the money she earns in savings for when she can no longer work. That won't be too far down the road... So, I am asking if you both have any desire to help out with purchases of a home for our mother. We are prepared to get a loan and purchase it ourselves but the thought came to me that you might want to be included in this decision. I don't want you to have any reason to say you were never asked to help. If you decided you would like to help with the purchase, I will give you financial details.”

“I don't want you to have any reason to say you were never asked to help.” Love that line.

Now, not going into it, yet I did not contact her back as yet on the matter. Looks like I do not have too since mom called me on Wednesday.

Sister and her husband have bought two nice homes to rent out and mom was to have one of them, but that is not going to happen now. A depressed personality with a mile-wide self destructive of personal happiness streak, mom drinks when times are bad. She got a DWI and spent the night in jail. Had a psyc evaluation and was deemed “a very sad and depressed person” so has been ordered by the court take a series of classes ($45.00 a pop).

Because of this happening, she is not going to be allowed to live in the home my sister and her family bought for her, telling her, and I quote: “You have brought shame and disgrace upon our family.”

Here is where I remind folks that my sister and her husband are Born Again Christians. Reason my sister despises me is that I once had the balls to tell her to actually live the quote that ends her emails, being “let love into your heart” because if there is any single person on this planet who does not do this thing, it is her. Told her this after I discovered she had went to mom’s then still husband while mom was not home, sat him at the kitchen table to tell him about all the boyfriends mom had had in her life during the years before they were married because my sister in ‘good consciousness’ could no longer stand the burden of ‘guilty silence’. Mom’s husband got pissed at my sister for being a bitch, could not comprehend how anyone could do such a thing or feel they had a reason too, I got pissed at my sister, told her to let some love into her heart...and from that moment on became the bad guy to everyone. Mom was quite cold towards me for a good year plus...

Back to the present. Now, mom--who has been extended the offer to come live with me and Emile on several occasions and refuses (wanting to be near her grandkids)--is going to have to get rid of her dog, a toy breed and the only thing she has of companionship in her life, join the YWCA in order to take showers and live in her truck.

Now get this, soon as I heard that “You have brought shame, blah-blah” line I got furious. Told her families were supposed to come together and help one another during times like this, and that it was the most horrendous and biggest crock of shit I had ever heard in my life and it was not true, how dare anyone think something like that let alone say it when mom is going through everything that she is right now...stuff like that. All mom could say is that no, is was true, they had every right to do what they did and that I should not say bad things like that about my sister. Damn near started to get panicky. Hung up soon after.

LOL, but Emile was in raging-shaky state same as I was, said I should write my sister a good long letter and lay it all on the line. I said to what purpose? You know her, do you think she will listen? No, she will not, because that is who she is. Not in this instance, but in many such as that sit down with mom’s then husband experienced over the years, we both know my sister. Not for good reason does she do those types of things, (many, many, many such,) merely because she enjoys doing those things. My sister truly enjoys doing such things to my mother. Gets off on it. Drops a bomb from the blue and sits back with a grin on her face to watch the fireworks. More traumatic the better. My young sister is an evil person, lacking all morals except for things she ‘says’ (because she gets a lot of attention and praise for saying such things,) and it pains me the unhealthy relationship between mom and her, but it is the way things are and throughout my life it has been proven time and time again that there is nothing I can do about any of it.

Ah well. Like I said, thought I had gotten beyond becoming emotionally involved in these things, but haven’t. Got a whopping stress headache and the whole nine yards. Still feeling it, to the level I did when my sister forced my then thirteen year old niece to have radiation ‘treatments’ for her diagnosed case of ‘adolescent arthritis’. (I.e Fibromialgia.) Not that it helped--of course it wouldn’t--however, it did get my sister a lot of attention for having a poor, sick daughter like that to talk to everyone about. Yup, pity the poor mother who stressed out her intelligent and sensitive daughter enough to make her ill in the first place...and now has undergone extensive radiation exposure during her young body’s most critical, growing years...

Anyhows, that’s some of the latest from my neck of the woods and things that have been keeping me busy, as well as reclusive. Hate it, trying to do better...oh yeah, one more thing. The house we wanted to buy sold to someone else. Hurts like hell, still, probably for the best. Would have been such a burden and taken too much energies and years to ever realize what would have made it a dream. My mind says it is a good thing, and I truly do know it is, yet there is still sadness. No biggie, a better, brighter future awaits. I don’t know, but it still feels--as tumultuous and whirlwind uncertain as things are now--that everything that is happening is meant to happen. The friction that ignites and propels us on to something much finer--this thing that is also meant.

Okay-d, that’s it for now. Been working our asses off past few days and am going to go chill out a bit.

Hugs and keep smiling, folks! Believe it or not I still am.

Then again, maybe I’ve just cracked? LOL!

Cheers,

Melissa

Hello everyone, yes I am still here and just want to say THANK YOU so very, very, very much to all of you for your thoughts, well wishes and comments. Hope you can forgive and understand, but I couldn't deal a bit there... No, better to say it was more needing recovery from the exhaustion of months and months back to back of taking care 24-7 of two beloved pets like that and I needed to step back, not keep opening up the too raw and fresh wounds. Still having trouble just looking at photographs, let alone think and write... Amazing how this stuff will just creap up and wham you sometimes when you least expect it.

Anyways, we are 'back' from our vacation, basically unplugged from everything totally for almost two weeks, and as a result it has been further weeks of hitting the grindstone full running to catch up. (Oh my gosh, the email backlog alone!!!) Let's just say that keeping busy and work is helping. No more delays, it is time to finalize the next stages of our lives and careers here.

So much has happened though, Emile's birthday on May 8th, hosted two psychic fairs, family reunions, (on Emile's side) a huge load of BS from my sister, dinner out with friends, road trips and a couple of really nice hikes that I need to put together a couple video/photo YouTubes on.

Ha, speaking of that, some jerk grabbed a couple of Emile's singing bowl performance videos, changed the titles, digitally altered them to remove his name, website, credits and fact that it is copyrighted material and inserted their own website addy smack across the whole thing. Snarls... Submitted a copyright infringment complain with YouTube, we'll see if they pull them or not.

Was very excited because a robin built a nest in the tree on our back steps, three feet from the door and you just had to go on your tip-toes a little to peek right in. Was going to take a photo journal of the eggs, the cute two chicks as they grew...but a crow came along and ate them, so so much for that.

Life for the rest of us, however, goes on.

Tell you though it has been something. Not just Emile and myself needing to re-center, but just last week a lady came into the shop and just stood there, said, "I can't deal with not seeing Miss Jinx sitting on the front steps..." and then she burst out crying. Apologized like crazy, I mean she was our cat, right? Still, this is just one example of the like. Nice though, there was a certain amber ring she had wanted for a long time and she bought it, put it on her finger and said, "This is going to be very special for me. I am going to look at it and remember her always, the energy and warmth, to me, this ring is going to symbolize all that she meant to me and I will treasure it forever."

Yes, a very special cat, just like I have said.

One of our readers who came to this fair (she had already gotten the news) just came and had to stand there, trying to get herself under control as well for the day. At the end she almost lost it too, still, it is just life.

Stories, stories and more stories from practically everyone who comes into the shop. Hugs galore, only LOL it is more like me giving them out the receiving. Sheesh. Sorry, like I said, it was just hard for me to come back here and write anything. Better now, if still inundated with work and the like. Again though, nothing bad, all productive and leaving us with a sense of accomplishment at the end of the day at least.

Bah, now if only the house wasn't so empty and quiet...

Anyhows, we're cool here. Might finally have some movement with my writing career as well. A literary agent from New York (thirty years in the biz) made damn sure I had her card to get in contact with her. Going to do that tomorrow or next day so keep fingers crossed!

Okay that's all for now. Have to baby my laptop because it is starting to make mechanical 'clink-clunk' sounds when the hardrive kicks in. Argh, I so do NOT want anything with VISTA, but will have to go that route because of the Aura Chakra video program, which, thank gods DOES work with VISTA.

At least that's what the techs tell us.

Fingers and toes crossed on that one.

Okay, cheers and hugs to everyone,

Melissa

We just laid Miss Jinx to rest a little while ago in the garden. She passed around ten this evening and it was quick and gentle as could be as she simple lay down and went to sleep for the last time.

I knew it was going to happen, at least sometime within the next day or so; we all knew it was her time, and Emile and I had decided to stop with her treatment. That damn stubbornness and bitchy attitude of hers is what did it. The medicine helped, she got strong--really, really strong, woke up and decided she did not like things one bit, thank you very much; the holding down and taste of the crap. And who could blame her? Shit is cherry flavored and a thick syrup--yuck! So because her body was at low reserves due to her prev hunger strikes, the stress was simply too much. So she fought and fought hard; got one does out of five, bit, clawed, stopped eating completely, and as grand finally, after the last dose, got up weakly to return to my room where she was staying to take a rather large piss on the carpet under my computer chair.

Point made, Miss Jinx, so we stopped. It was clear there was no way possible to continue. She had passed the edge by then; to continue would have been a cruelty. Nor was it the stopping of the attempts at medication that did it, since like I said, she fought, and even what little we managed to get into her simply came right up so she was not getting any anyways. Time to let her remaining time be calmer and dignified.

Had eaten nothing for over two days now and I had a feeling, (she was at the front door yesterday, first time in days, and you could tell she wanted to go outside to die,) so all day today I was petting her and telling her that it was all right to rest now, to go to sleep and go find Timber to play with. The chair where she was staying is surrounded by his stuffed toys which she adopted and always played with after his death. Basically, anything I could do to bring her some comfort, even though she was weak and not in any true pain. I would like to think they helped when we could not be with her ourselves.

About nine p.m. I was tired and went into the tub, before doing so I said to Emile to go in and pet her. She had made a few soft meows once earlier in the evening, so I asked him to listen in case she did such again. She did and he did. Emile stayed petting her for about fifteen minutes and she settled a few moments into it. He told me (later) that he had also told her everything was fine and to go to sleep now.

Not more then ten minutes after that I got out of the tub and came into my room and saw she had done so.

It hurts like hell and there are many tears, since she was the last bit of, well, happiness and emotional comfort and support that Emile and I have during these trying times. Yes, we do have each other, still, those of you with pets and no other true family will understand.

Still, she is at peace now like she wanted, and even though it was only two years, I am happy for that time and what she gave to us. Even customers at the store, Miss Jinx just touched so many lives. Often she would sit outside on the steps, just wait for someone to come by and go great them to be worshipped before turning her back and retaking her throne in the sun. (LOL more then once folks would come in and say “I’m not here to shop, just followed the cat in. What’s her name?”) She would sit with people on the porch and come inside back and forth all day long during our psychic fair days. Had a real nose for people in need, and she would twine herself between the reading psychics’ legs and go up to be petted by the clients, often rubbing against the legs of those who were going through strong emotional episodes, gave them a moment of calmness and centering. She stopped many tears in her time, our Miss Jinx did.

People are going to be devastated this Sunday’s fair. Just two days ago Emile told me (since much of my time has been spent upstairs with her so she was not so often alone) a lady had come in and asked where Miss Jinx was? Emile told her and the lady was floored, heh, damn near as distraught as we ourselves have been. Yeah, this Sunday should be a blast... It will be all right though, even before this we decided we were going to take from Monday 5th till Wed. 14th off. We are exhausted as is, but the time will be needed even more now.

Anyway, Miss Jinx is asleep in the garden where she would be chased as well as chase Timber around in return now. Wrapped and buried with crystals, there is one on top of the ground that I will take with us when we move to retain the connection of such a wonderful soul and spirit.

Goodnight, girl. Thank you for coming into our lives and giving us what you did during the time you had. We love and will never forget you. Rest in peace little lady, you earned it well.

Hi folk, just a quick one to let you know Miss Jinx is still with us.

I'll come back with details of the vet's word later, just too damn tired right now; seems like free minutes are so scant.

Anyways, after the vets Miss Jinx stopped eating totally again, was down to skinny-bone paws and everything within 24 hours. She's much better now, at least has gained a bit of weight (paws are fleshed out again fine) since then and is more aware for past few days, not just the 'sick cat huddle and lay with head bowed' bit. Actually sits up most of the day with eyes open wide and clear and likes to be around where things are busy (with us, not just staying secluded in my artroom anymore.)

Bah, 1:30am so what the heck? Well, seems when the vet called us that day she said along with the lukemia (spelling) the bloodwork indicated a parasite so she was prescribing medication for that. That's why it made no sense to arrive and find a prescrip. for Bartinella.

Anyhows, the vet called us late afternoon the next day (sounding 'nice' ha,) and said that was her fault. She had relooked over the bloodwork (that must have been a first) and it wasn't a parasite, but Bartinella. Seems cats with lukemia 'do not get rid of it' with the medication, but it goes 'dormant'. (Thanks, would have liked to known that 2 years ago.) So she changed the prescript but didn't tell us that day, just went home.

How nice, her first reaction is to call us and tell us to put our cat to sleep, then she decided to actually LOOK at the blood tests she'd run.

Yeah, that's one Dr's call I hope others ask for a second opinion of!

To continue, from the bloodwork it looks like Jinx's cell count is down because she's trying to fight this thing off; the lukemia has her immunity system down and out of whack. This explains why she was having something wrong with that side of her head, since it effects mucas membranes like gums and sinuses. Also, a few days prior to brining her in again the eye on that side had started to 'run': another sign of bartinella. A rather clear sign actually. Too bad the vet refused to even look at Jinx's head.

So long story short, we are giving her the medication and she seems better in small stages. The eye has stopped running...only nuts, the stronger she gets the bitchier and harder to give her the medicine, which will take a few weeks. (Like I've mentioned, Jinx's prev people who abandoned her put a LOT of fear in her of being restrained. Took several weeks for us to be able to even pick up and hold her, which she likes now for brief moments.) Forget trying to sneek it into her food, she still only eats tiny bits at a time and at this point getting food in her is more important. After that other mis-prescribed round of antibiotic she wasn't trusting any food I was giving her at all. Smart cat, soon as she ate she got weaker and had diarrea. Didn't take her long to figure out why.

Still, she is clearly not suffering or in pain, actually wants to go outside--which again makes us the 'bad guys' since we aren't letting her. Even weak as she is she can still put on a real burt of speed. I did bring her out a few times to keep her interested in life, only she took to it too well. Ha, had to chase and gab her before she slipped under the fence and man, did she give some pissed off growl!

Of course after that she went on hunger strike again, just spent the rest of the day glaring at me, and ha, the next morning when she did her usual come in to wake us up say hello she did not climb in behind our pillows, but made damn sure to jump on both of my and Emile's stomachs. Her point and feelings made very clear.

A bitch like I've said, but one you just have to love.

And on that note I've got to try grab some sleep myself. Just wanted to thank you all for stopping by, your words and Azodnem, that candle is wonderful, thank you so much! (BIG HUGS)

Further hugs to all and good night till next time,

Melissa

Well it's a lovely fuckin' day out there so grabbed some me-time and took some snaps in our garden:

STAR MAGNOLIA IN BLOOM

MY APRICOT TREE IN FLOWER

I love these for desktop imaes. Really helps.

And despite the gods damned vet, Miss Jinx woke us up same as usual, feeling very fine and ate some food I mixed with powdered desc. liver pills, meaning that yes, she survived the night and is feeling good, thank you so very much for nothing, and you can shove "The Needle" up your own ass, bitch.

Okay, I'm still in "a mood" over yesterday's traumatizing ordeal and life in general, still I'm trying and still here. Take it for what it's worth.

Beyond that, better go dash for some breakfast myself; today and tomorrow are going to be piled high with things to do/deal with. Fingers crossed for this morning though, have a Holistic Healer we work with (super nice and wonderful lady) and she is bringing three of her students by in a short bit to look over our just arrived (finally cleared customs) latest and whomper batch of Singing Bowls. Store is dead in the water otherwise across the board (them's the times we live in) so this could really help us out towards gaining a bit more for new home and the possibility we'll have to carry two mortgages for awhile. No problem. In fact, I am aching for just that sort of 'trouble' if it means we can get out of here.

Okay people, wishing you all a good one and blessing all around,

Melissa